On Death and Dying 

May everyone find comfort in their moments of grieving 
While some of us make a big to do about celebrity deaths 

Many have lost mothers, brothers, sisters, fathers, grandparents, best friends, spouses and more this year and EVERY YEAR.
Let us not forget that every life deserves the same respect and reflection. 
Death is constant…

2016 is no different

May you be at peace and embrace 2017 with vigor, love and strength. 



2016 kicked my arse…

Right now is time for the petty post. Let’s talk about things to leave in 2016. Matter fact, let’s throw these things away TODAY. The dog ears and the head thingy snapchat filters….hate these shits. The going live on Facebook….and you ain’t saying SHIT….just looking in the camera twirling weave or making duck lips…..trash this 🌽🏀 shit man. 
The giving your “haters” so much attention. Who’s hating? Why do you care? How do your haters motivate you? Shouldn’t the people who love and support you motivate you? FOH with this man lol…quit posting porn, fights, and other violence on social media. 
Quit poking folks on Facebook. Shit is stupid. Makes no sense. Stop making posts about being bored. Boring people get bored. Read a book. Find a new hobby. Stop misspelling words in your posts and misusing your homonyms, homophones, and homographs (grade school English….look it up. ( I’m very guilty of this mainly because Im thinking too hard and miss entire words oh well- let’s all do better) 

The web has a plethora of valuable information besides Rob and Chyna’s relationship). And do research before you say stuff and really have no idea what you’re talking about. We are all guilty of doing the latter. Don’t believe everything you hear. Especially from media outlets. Make an effort to think critically and process information given to you prior to believing it. And make an effort to stay positive as well has embracing that shadow self. Without the darkness there can be no light; vice versa. Do not let this world poison your heart. People have sucked in 2016. Immensely. They will continue to suck until the end of time. Stay true to yourself…unless you’re an asshole. Don’t stay true to that shit. Change. Literally…become a different person. Drink bleach and cleanse yourself. 

Happy Hanukkah, a festive Kwanzaa, Merry Xmas, and Happy New Year. 
That wasn’t really so petty after all….😏

I’m only happy when it rains…

If someone is obviously living in uncomfortable situations and not aligned with their life path… why would you listen to them when it comes to living your dream? If they’re living their nightmare it wouldn’t be far fetched to say they’ve stopped dreaming for themselves… 

They won’t be happy for you until they’re happy for themselves… and happiness is an inside job honey… you may be waiting a long time… 

And that’s OK. Be your own advocate, happiness, and support system… if you tackle those things, the wait will only feel as long as you make it.